I would have him let me direct him for three months ( at least ) off in someplace no one can find unless we both want them to. Of course he could bail out at anytime, but ideally he wouldn't for those months. I'd have him eat raw vegan fare for a while, then have him fast, for about a month, just on water, and there would be tending to some fruit trees, learning to garden and maybe we could both learn about making yarn and fabric, and solar power generators...I would reserve the right to bail too but would rather the ideal dream vacation.