What I wrote today:
Hooking in Montreal, with Angie, and with Charlie:
Being a stripper doesn’t necessarily mean being a prostitute, but when Charlie hit me, I couldn’t smile at the job. Therefore, I couldn’t make money. I started going to a seedier strip club, on Decarie I guess the street was called. There, I did cocaine with other girls at one customer’s table. Later, I met a customer that called me a witch. My stage name was Samantha, so I was a little flattered, thinking of that old TV show, with the good natured witch called Samantha or Sabrina.
I ended up going to his home. His name was Gerry. He and I did cocaine there. I did a lot of it. He kept it in a candy dish on the coffee table. He only did it lightly. We fooled around, short of penetration. He paid me $100 for a couple of hours doing that. I kept the lights on at my and Charlie’s apartment with that money. The way we got that apartment was deceitful. Charlie had lived in it with a woman called Gail, but he’d battered her, even while she was pregnant with his child. He held her under the hot water tap, to give her pain, for instance. He said he did it because she had spoken to him in a bossy, ‘manly’ tone.
At the time they were living together, I didn’t know how it was between them. As far as I knew, they were just roommates. I’d had such a crush on Charlie, I was making anonymous calls to him, too shy to call as myself openly. We developed a tapping system for communicating. One day, I blurted out a sigh, and he discovered that I was female. Through this means of communication, though, I found out that Gail was moving to another province. That was my cue to ‘bump' into him. Somehow I managed to cross paths with him, and exchange numbers above board.
I called him up as myself openly, and was invited to come look at the apartment, because he was looking for a new roommate. The trick was though, that I’d have to pretend not to know him, to the landlord, and rent the apartment afresh, because he’d been evicted. Anything for Charlie, so that was what I did. I showed up clean cut and on my own, and rented it no problem. This was on Snowdon street I think it was called, near Decarie boulevard and Snowden metro station.
It was a big apartment. Charlie’s friends Mark and Sandy lived above us, and Denise, a neighbor beside us would bring Charlie her cooking. Everybody’s heart always bled for Charlie. I was just a scummy stripper, and Charlie was the hearth everyone wanted to warm themselves by. But at that point, he hadn’t yet had his paralyzing bicycle accident. After he had it, people’s guard would drop upon seeing this gorgeous, lion like blonde teddy bear, paralyzed from the solar plexus down, confined to a souped up wheelchair.
I was never resentful that people were kind to him while only putting up with me because I was Charlie’s girl. It’s only now, when I look back, that I’m bitter about it. Anyway, so I got the apartment, and Charlie just kept living there, to the chagrin of the landlord. I eventually told Charlie it was me making those anonymous calls. I seduced him but he gave me rough sex, which isn’t my preference, the first time we had sex. I’d danced around, and that didn’t cut the mustard, so I showed him girly magazines, and that got him aroused, but, it was so rough, I didn’t enjoy it. However I was only trying to break the ice between us, and hoped that would help.
Next thing I knew, we were hanging out with my friend Janice, and they kept making out in front of me, Charlie and Janice. By the end of the evening, Charlie'd gone home ahead of me, and Janice and I wept at the sordidness of it all. I sullenly went home, and numbly went to bed. Charlie joined me of his own accord, and made love to me gently, but I didn’t feel it because I was emotionally numb, and figured it was pity sex.
My job, as a waitress at the time, was snatched from me. It was a fellow waitress, who convinced the boss to hire her daughter instead. But in the end, the bartender, who I kept in touch with, told me I’d been spared, that everyone’s cheque bounced. They’d closed down the enterprise without warning. However, rent was due before long, and I didn’t want Charlie worrying, so I opened the newspaper and looked at the classified ads to find work. There was only one option that stood out to me. “Go go dancers $500 - $800 per week” I think the agency was called All Stars, on Berri de Montigne, near the bus depot.
I gingerly peeked into the agency office, and saw a friendly looking man and a stripper who seemed happy enough. Next thing I knew, he was taking a picture of me in a bathing suit, and then I was hired to work at La Source Du Sexe, I think it was called, in Dorval, that night. I was to meet our driver at Guy metro station at 7 I think. But first, I used the agency’s tanning beds. I did well at the Source, finding it easy to get on the stage, punch in my songs on the jukebox, and dance 2 songs on my feet, then one thrashing around on a blanket.
At the Source, I doubled as a cocktail waitress. I did okay. The rent was paid, and I had money to buy luxuries like porcelain wall ornaments, and perfume. But I could sense that Charlie, I was cramping his style, so I took the agency up on a better paying gig in Oshawa, Ontario, to give Charlie a break. Every day, I’d call to check in, and Charlie’s friend Mark would answer, for 6 days straight. He gave me some lame excuse for Charlie not being around each time I called, so I figured that I could take a hint, and I got myself another week long gig there in Oshawa, and I called to deliver the good news that I’d be away for another week.
Mark answered as expected, but before I could say anything, he blurted out that he had some bad news, and that he and Charlie hadn’t wanted to spoil my work week, but now that it was over, he’d tell me the truth, that Charlie had been drinking heavily at a party one night, and fell off his bicycle in the St.Remi tunnel, hitting the guard rail, and the doctors said he’ll never walk again.
It didn’t sink in. I’d just bought knick knacks for the apartment that day lightheartedly, at a flea market a customer had taken me to, had had dinner at a couple’s house, was happy to stay in Oshawa for another week, giving Charlie however much space he wanted. The momentum kept the bad news from sinking in. I laid my head on the clean hotel pillow, but felt a little off. It was then I realized the gravity of what Mark had told me. “will never walk again”
It was too late to book travel that night back to Montreal, by any other means than taxi. I paid a driver a few hundred dollars to get me there asap. Mark drove me to the hospital in the morning, and that was when I met Charlie’s ex girlfriend Sharon. Another Sharon. And, we both had bought him the U2 album War.
What could I do? Just be stoic. Get used to cleaning urine and feces from his clothes, from the toilet seat, from the bathtub. Get used to Charlie having filthy fingers, from wheeling his chair around. Get used to the lingering smells of urine and feces, which never entirely get out of your clothes which you wash with his. Get used to infections because of the catheter up his urethra. Get used to mouth and finger sex. I just accepted it as well as I could.
My mistake though, was being willing to give Charlie my heart on a silver platter. I did that because I felt sorry for him. It only left me open to abuse, like a doormat, making the excuse that I’d be crazy too, if I’d had such a drastic accident. One day, after making us both breakfast, Charlie reached out and slapped my face hard. I just looked at him, waiting for an explanation. None came, so I resumed eating. He slapped me again, and laughed.
I couldn’t smile after that, at work, and that was when I started working at seedier clubs, where I met Angie, a stripper and prostitute, who showed me how to do the latter. She had a young son, and a husband who had a Guinness World Record size penis they showed me. Angie took me downtown, where we got ourselves picked up by a man in a cowboy hat. He drove us to his apartment in NDG, and he gave us cocaine. He favored me, because I had a body that was tight at the time, while Angie looked like she’d had a kid.
He plied me with cocaine, while Angie slipped out. I stayed there until the John had to shower for work. He was insatiable. As we parted, I asked for one more hit. He impatiently said no, that I had to leave and he had to go to work. A few days later, he called, and I rejected his invitation to do it all again, because I was no longer hooked. Cocaine only ever hooked me while I was on it, not after I come down. Also, it had felt very cold of him to cut me off icily that morning. That was a turn off.
Angie and I would next go to a club in Iberville, Quebec, where there was a lascivious manager at the time, who pushed cocaine on Angie and I.
To be continued…