Boz Boorer concert...sort of

[Rose]

Re: ...sort of

> Sorry, but I have to step in here..... Cinderella is so not
> evil. She's someone who likes to speak their mind and if she
> doesn't like you she'll let you know, and surely most people
> can't deal with that. Besides, she hasn't been here for weeks
> because she's sick and tired of this place and I don't blame
> here.

> The reason why some people pass out tags like "Queen of the
> board" and other rubbish is quite simple: there's some like
> me, who think they have a lot to say, and worthy or not, they
> say it. It's like in real life, people that speak out a lot and
> thus raise people's attention also raise simpler mind's
> jealousy. I don't care. If I feel like I have to say something
> I'm gonna continue to say it and if some whimps conclude that I
> think of myself as too important because of that, well that's
> their problem to deal with.

here's an idea. before you post something, stop and ask yourself, 'is it really worth my time and effort to put this in print? or would my time be better spent staring out the window?'

 

[Folly]

Yeah...I agree, yet again, with Mimi...

> How stupid are you? Like everyone else, it's my bloody right to
> defend myself when I'm attacked, what's the problem with that?
> Get over it....

> Noone asked you to feel sorry for her - as if she'd care....

> I am totally cool, or did it seem like I was crying my heart out
> when I wrote the above?? You're the one who shows hysterical
> reactions to absolutely everything I write.....

YOU tell him Mimi! Mr. Blow is worthless to get worked up over- even when you obviously aren't, but he says you are anyway! What a weirdo!

Whatever, Joe, Blow. Ta!

 

[Mimi]

Re: ...sort of

> here's an idea. before you post something, stop and ask
> yourself, 'is it really worth my time and effort to put this in
> print? or would my time be better spent staring out the window?'

Well I obviously do or can you think of anyone who posts by accident? And if you think I post a lot you should have seen me a few months ago when I actually still enjoyed it....nowadays it's more of a habit that's hard to get rid of.

 

[Bertrand]

Re: ...sort of

> Her reasons are of a different kind..... I personally agree, and
> I guess I'm not the only one who realised that this place just
> isn't as much fun as it used to be. Everyone's complaining and
> fighting, and accusing each other of things has just moved way
> too much into focus. Greasetea & Co have been here for a
> long time, I'm not saying they weren't a problem for some
> people, but it's only recently that they've become the main
> issue.

I think that there two different types of people who come here - those that come here to talk with other fans and those that come here to play. Tea and Cinders fall into the second camp. Since each camp has entirely different motives for being here, it creates a lot of animosity, which makes this place not much fun.

I would have to disagree with about Greasy, though. He's been a problem since the beginning. Why anyone would go on so long without anything constructive to say is beyond me. But he doesn't exist in my world any longer (I can't remember the last time I read his posts)so I don't care what he does.

He does seem to be losing interest, though.

> We should never forget that we don't speak face to face and a
> lot of things come across differently than they were intended,
> and once they're written down they can only be taken back under
> difficult circumstances which noone wants to bother about. I'm
> not including Greasetea in this, he certainly means what he says
> every time, but it goes for every one else really.

This should be posted at the top of the page!

The worse thing is when you post something, then read it a day later and realized you were a total ass.

 

[Mimi]

Re: ...sort of

> I think that there two different types of people who come here -
> those that come here to talk with other fans and those that come
> here to play. Tea and Cinders fall into the second camp. Since
> each camp has entirely different motives for being here, it
> creates a lot of animosity, which makes this place not much fun.

That's true....for myself I think I'm somewhere inbetween those two camps, which got me enemies in both. Well life's tough.

> I would have to disagree with about Greasy, though. He's been a
> problem since the beginning. Why anyone would go on so long
> without anything constructive to say is beyond me. But he
> doesn't exist in my world any longer (I can't remember the last
> time I read his posts)so I don't care what he does.

That's what I meant, he was or is a problem for many. He was a problem for me too until I got to know the person behind him by accident and started to read the posts differently. But I can understand how for instance someone who comes here for the first time could be pretty scared by him.

> He does seem to be losing interest, though.

> This should be posted at the top of the page!

> The worse thing is when you post something, then read it a day
> later and realized you were a total ass.

Not only that, also realising that you've not only said something wrong but something completely useless and that you could have spent your time better with for instance catching flies. What's been tiring me personally are the recent fights I had to lead with some people....I recall a time when everyone here thought of me as very dear and friendly, which is what I consider myself too and I don't remember when things started to go wrong. It's exhausting for me to have to defend myself all the time when I don't even know what for.

 

[Pussycat]

A chaos of viewpoints.

> We should never forget that we don't speak face to face and a
> lot of things come across differently than they were intended,
> and once they're written down they can only be taken back under
> difficult circumstances which noone wants to bother about.

That's is why being excessively infantile can be a problem in a forum like this one. It's not about being unable to handle a person speaking his or her mind as you said in your other message above. I personally prefer people speaking their minds, but there are ways to be honest and tactful at the same time. That's why we have words like "manners," "appropriate," and "considerate." Nobody said that living in a society was easy. To go around and react with unrestrained viciousness every time you feel the slightest whimsical inclination to do so is simply stupid and immature. I appreciate your trying to put a positive spin on Cinderella's bizarre behaviour towards me, but I think most of the people (in this thread anyway) can see right through that. I think Bertrand put it well when he said that there's a difference between speaking out and acting out.

> I'm
> not including Greasetea in this, he certainly means what he says
> every time, but it goes for every one else really.

That reminds me, Greasetea, stop calling me a bitch! I understand that she's fu*king you and I'm not, but that doesn't make me a bitch.

Kisses anyway.

 

[Somny]

Re: ...sort of

> Talk away!!!!! Stop trying to be such a martyr. You seem to be
> able to criticize others but you don't seem to be able to handle
> it when others criticize you.

> As far as Cinderella goes, boo hoo!!! Same deal, baby. She can
> dish it out but she can't take it! Not gonna feel sorry for her.

> You are always telling everyone to lighten up, well why don't
> you take your own advice??

It's funny when we see someone that hurts a person that we like, but when we don't care... go on, destroy this person!!!... I don't have friends in this board here(not anymore) , but if I need to choose someone to hate, that's cinderella.